Friday, October 23, 2009

REST IN PEACE MY BROTHER



A TRIBUTE TO A BROTHER IN A MILLION

You tied us in a human chain and made us run down hill, you said if we ran fast enough we could fly up to the moon. Then you told us about cow boys and Indians, and built tippees of sticks and stones, you said one shot from your wooden gun an Indian bites the dust. You made us laugh at everything, mimicking miming and goofing around, you said learn to laugh my dear its always better to laugh than cry. You taught us to drive, to swim and the many scraped knees from stunting on our bikes were worth it when learnt to ride. Through bitter fights you taught us that in everything love would always conquer all. You were Mr Personality, the General, Usoro Papa, Udo Nna Ekpe, Apala you meant so much to everyone-a brother in a million, that’s what you truly were.


NEVER READY TO SAY GOODBYE

We’ re never ready to say goodbye
To someone we hold dear
If it were up to us, dear Tunde
We’d always keep you here.
But God has reasons of his own
And Plans we do not know
And these are always for our own good
Though it may not seem so.
Our arms are empty and our hearts filled with tears and grief
For we who loved each day with you
Now find these days too brief
Yet if only we could heaven see
We’d know you are happy there
And we would never call you back
When such great joy you share
And so well trust you to Gods great care
And know some day once more
Well hold you to out hearts again when we reach heavens shore
- SMS-


Your sister – Imaobong Regina Askia Williams

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Prejudiced ?

We're back!!! I missed you guys . This is where we talk to each other from the heart. No frills, a little thrill, most importantly...we keep it real.Today, we'll be talking prejudice.
Prejudice? Yes.
Talk to me about the shades of prejudice you may have experienced. Class prejudice, race, social or economic? Would you call me paranoid if I say I feel this at every turn? Ill give instances. White folks against blacks, african americans against african immigrants, hispanics against african americans? Each person against himself? I do not seek to promote divisiveness but people, y'all know or at least sense what I am hinting at.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

MY RXN TO BEN STEIN’s ARTICLE BELOW


Thanks for this enlightening article Mr. Stein. You have opened my eyes to a world of truth. The truth being that with bigots like spewing trash like this there is so much work to be done and today I resolve to keep up the struggle to drown out noise like yours ny fully supporting the President and his men in whatever ways I can.
You glibly insult our collective intellect telling us we voted for a pig in a poke? Take another look in the mirror Sir. His speaking up against characters like you makes his writings anti white but its okay to call him a pig in a poke.
Anti American diatribe by Jeremiah Wright? WHAT DID THAT MAN SAY THAT WAS NOT TRUE?
You should be ashamed that you have fed so fat on trappings of your office words like community organizer become an anathema to you. You forget that your first calling as a leader is to serve. Charity always begins at home Sir, that’s why OBAMA began with his community but of course that would be another dirty word to you.
You complain of a total zero academic record ( maybe you were in Argentina when the documentary of his accomplishments was aired). To your eternal chagrin Sir the confused little boy broke through the oppressive black experience, oppresive institutions fueled by the likes of you and is now the PRESIDENT of the most powerful nation on earth - AGAINST ALL ODDS. Its okay to cry Sir, go ahead. Now he is talking about health care for millions of Americans who don't have coverage, helping others yet again. Unleashing another act of terror in your comfort zone. So you embark on this campaign of calumny, to drown him in some WATERLOO? It aint happening. America was founded on freedom justice and EQUALITY for all and so may it remain. GOD BLESS AMERICA.


Ben Stein has actually written some pretty intelligent stuff so why hate on OBAMA so? Prejudiced?
http://www.benstein.com/writing.html

By Ben Stein on 7.24.09 @ 9:45AM
Why is President Barack Obama in such a hurry to get his socialized medicine bill passed?
Because he and his cunning circle realize some basic truths:
The American people in their unimaginable kindness and trust voted for a pig in a poke in 2008. They wanted so much to believe Barack Obama was somehow better and different from other ultra-leftists that they simply took him on faith.
They ignored his anti-white writings in his books. They ignored his quiet acceptance of hysterical anti-American diatribes by his minister, Jeremiah Wright.
They ignored his refusal to explain years at a time of his life as a student. They ignored his ultra-left record as a "community organizer," Illinois state legislator, and Senator.
The American people ignored his total zero of an academic record as a student and teacher, his complete lack of scholarship when he was being touted as a scholar.
Now, the American people are starting to wake up to the truth. Barack Obama is a super likeable super leftist, not a fan of this country, way, way too cozy with the terrorist leaders in the Middle East, way beyond naïveté, all the way into active destruction of our interests and our allies and our future.
The American people have already awakened to the truth that the stimulus bill -- a great idea in theory -- was really an immense bribe to Democrat interest groups, and in no way an effort to help all Americans.
Now, Americans are waking up to the truth that ObamaCare basically means that every time you are sick or injured, you will have a clerk from the Department of Motor Vehicles telling your doctor what he can and cannot do.
The American people already know that Mr. Obama's plan to lower health costs while expanding coverage and bureaucracy is a myth, a promise of something that never was and never will be -- a bureaucracy lowering costs in a free society. Either the costs go up or the free society goes away.
These are perilous times. Mrs. Hillary Clinton, our Secretary of State, has given Iran the go-ahead to have nuclear weapons, an unqualified betrayal of the nation. Now, we face a devastating loss of freedom at home in health care. It will be joined by controls on our lives to "protect us" from global warming, itself largely a fraud if believed to be caused by man.
Mr. Obama knows Americans are getting wise and will stop him if he delays at all in taking away our freedoms.
There is his urgency and our opportunity. Once freedom is lost, America is lost. Wake up, beloved America.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

One hell of a job interview !!!

One amazing job interview!!!Hello Good morning , may I take your coat

(How nice I thought) Thanks I said , slipping off my coat .

Please have a seat ill be with you in a minute

Okay…take your time.( I did not like that the work place was like a home environment , but I would not be working from out here I consoled myself. I was hoping to be hired as an online instructor coaching students for the NewYork Insurance Licensing examinations. I am a teacher alongside my nursing program.)

Finally the boss came over and sat with me . So how much experience do you have with online coaching?

Never coached online but I am computech savy, build websites, run a few online businesses, besides as a student I have utilized a lot of interactive internet coaching, Black Board, Medspub, and all kinds of student resources.

Did you need to have a BSc to get in the nursing program,

No but I do have a Bachelors in Biology, an active NYS Insurance license, I am a substitute teacher with the Board of Ed, but as you know everything is kind of slow right now .

What would you like to be doing five years from now

Become an RN and a nurse educator,

Good , you know there would be avenues here to establish an internet outreach for your nursing education programs if you so wish….on and on went the interview at the end of the day it was obvious the boss was looking for an office assistant to answer phones on a part time basis and he offered me the job for about 10/12 per hour .

Thank you Sir but I was hoping to be an online instructor and as a sub, I earn about $150 each day I teach .
Yes but to be an instructor with us you need to have passed your NY insurance exams with an 85 passing grade, ( which I did) and you needed to have passed it at first shot( which I did) .So you could fax me your result sheet and we would take it from there
Okay. Till then you could start with us on Wednesday ……..blah blah blah…

Its just sad the way the country is headed right now
How so Sir ? Obama is here , everything is going to be alright.

(Rueful smile) There is a movement to fight for our freedoms. We will not stand by and watch America become a socialist state with socialist agenda’s. This is an undercover economic 911 by the current government of America in cahoots with socialists’ nations to impose the socialist agenda on this great nation and we will not stand for it . The capitalist America was built on rewards for hard work. If some companies are not doing well, let the system correct itself

But Sir that would have had catastrophic impacts on too many American families and countries around the world dependent on AIG for instance.
How can you tell? You could never know what would have been if you did not let it? Who’s to say options like Chapter 11 or even 10 would not have lead to a restructuring of the system?

At what cost?
At whatever cost it takes to get it right.
Look at the welfare system rewarding laziness and slovenliness. If you, if you lost your job or your business failed, would you lie down on the road side and give up the ghost? No, you would cry a little, and then get up and about setting things right, but what do we have today. The government doles out funds to encourage laziness at the tax payer’s expense and so a whole group of people choose to become laggards, drug dealers, and generally an unproductive bunch. Can any good come from that?

Did you consider how hard it is for some to get jobs (good jobs) despite their qualifications for it (trying to hint at the black experience?)

If you meant to you wouldn’t let a few negatives hold you back (I thought make that a few thousand negatives…..)
I was not always a rich fellow , I cant even say I’m a rich fellow am just comfortable, I am a disciplined Christian who by Gods grace is principled and hard working ….I work really hard , scrimp and save along the way , manage to earn at least $250 000 and that’s before I pay overheads and bills , by the time I’m done id be lucky to keep 100 000 the follows mortgages , taxes, school fees etc, then Uncle Sam , no Obama now tells me Ill have to pay huge taxes on the 250 000 …that is not right. That kills the spirit of enterprise.
All our rights are being trampled on; you cannot express yourself without being called racist? Now they are talking about not owning a gun?

Gun control Sir,
Who is anyone to make that determination over anybody?
Have you ever wondered why the founding fathers put in the clause of Fire Arms?

The right to defend one self?
Because they were passionate about protecting the individuals rights –

Sir, I thought the founding fathers were distrustful of democracy and that why the bill of rights was the last to be put in thanks to TJ
Not exactly, it was so that the citizenry could rise up and fight against any impositions or taking away their rights.

Sounds like Anarchy? Is that what you are suggesting?

No, I’m trying to paint a picture here. America was built on the foundation of personal freedom, which today is a sorry picture loose moral, lack of discipline, no pride in hard work, corruption and what have you. You must have been surprised when I talked about God, the waywardness in every aspect of American life in sad.
Families today are shredded. Women can up and go get a divorce and the first curve ball, There are so many agencies seeking to help her just walk awa/.Whatever happened to working it out, what happened to helping the man in the picture, what happened to family values, we forget that the family unit is the bed rock of any society. Enough fragmented families would make a fragmented society, look around.

What about domestic abuse?
I do not advocate for a woman staying where her life is at stake but more effort has to go in at saving the situation counseling etc and saving the family unit
And where that does not work?
Then we need to recognize that we have a crisis on our hands and set about getting things done right.

Look at our prison systems, overflowing all at the tax payer’s expense. When people err they should be punished, but what do they do in there, they go to school, watch cable and all what not. Is that punishment?

It is reform
Which is not working?

You are very distraught Sir, who would you have liked to see win at this election, Mc Cain?
Why not? Even though to a certain extent he was muzzled. Anyone who tries to speak out against the insensibility going on is muzzled ( a few names) That is why that Sarah Palin was such a breath of fresh air, she told it as it was

Or as she was told to tell? Because I don’t see how someone who couldn’t tell which papers she read would know anything about what was going on besides several other gaffes

She had no terrorist friends
She had no experience
She was more experienced than Obama, negotiating oil deals for Alaska and in the office of the governor
Of course with huge projects to nowhere.
If that is all she was guilty of then we would have had a better deal with her at the helms of affairs.
Obama rose too fast in the corrupt Chicago political arena, He owes too many people to be clean. He now has to repay favors which he tried to cleverly hide by denying any knowledge of million dollar settlements at AIG, who by the way co sponsored his campaign. We have not heard the last of Acorn let me tell you.

Sir, I just love the silver tongue President
Well have you seen him without a teleprompter, I was embarrassed for him
Okay,

Anyway this is supposed to be a job interview and this conversation is out of the loop. Next time we will stick to the job at hand

Thank you Sir, I appreciate.
Cheers

I drove home wondering if the boss mistook my brillo African hair and flashing tiger eyes for a Caucasian that he would comfortably say those damning things about black folks to my face? Either he was color blind or he just didn’t care whose ox was gored provided he told it as it was. Did that make him a courageous fellow? How about me. How was I as a would be employee expected to receive this? Was I to become the OBAMA rep in there to be verbally bashed each time the real OBAMA made political deceisions that irked a few? Were the issues he raised true…..well there was some truth to it but what caused these black folks to be this way? The boss obviously had a poor image of black folks how would that rub off? If he was to later discover that I am a recent African Imigrant ,enjoying some government largesse would he get enraged and sic his movement on me? Oh wow !! The office assistant position was out of my consideration ( the boss obviously did not think I was overqualified for that, I should be happy to be offered this right? I think I deserve better) and right now the online teaching angle was fading from my psyche. I want to be happy where I work so I had to pass up this opportunity……
There is so much food for thought in this exchange. Please watch Michelle Obama Interview on the legacies of racism and share your thoughts. Welcome to America

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Farrakhan on Nigeria

Moral condemnation of Nigeria? Do you think Farrakhan is right?

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Oh dear, Chris Brown in a domestic with Rihana?


Okay? Lovers got in a spat, things got out of hand ( out of hand?)rihana gets hit. A shiner , a split lip and bite marks all over her body. What the real story? Bite marks ? Wow, what did she do to him to make him bite her? What happened? We shall never know- but does ANYTHING justify a man putting his hands on a woman? Do tell

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Friday, January 30, 2009

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Beauty, the currency of Betrayal?? by Max Buwa

Max Buwa's Notes



Beauty is the currency of betrayal!

I just this minute came across this in a novel I'm curled up with; for some reason, it got me thinking...deep. .. have we not been fed with the notion that beauty opens doors, gets u a job, relationship with the opposite or same sex, favors in their various forms. Certainly does not betray you.
I credit FB for is revealing how many in-depth and intelligent friends, associates and colleagues i am surrounded by. Now that right there, an indisputably BEAUTIFUL thing*
Kindly share ur Intelligence/life-experience/interpretation of what 'beauty is the currency of betrayal' means to you.
P.S..."Handsome" also, in the same context applies.
Thank you much as always.
Most beautiful girl In naija ..( not too long ago)...Just a lil irony.



Halima Kwande at 12:54pm January 27
Maxy Babes dont judge until the book is finished. Whatcha think? !Even though the Hausas say "juma'an da zayi kyau, tun daga laraba za a gane"! Meaning a good weekend or friday will emerge on wednesday!


Pita Fuludu at 2:10pm January 27
maxine-ur barb is very very deep and thought provoking-while not wanting to respond to safeguard my dementia-i have to in order to lighten your thought load.
while many men think it is their world,it is actually a beautiful woman's world.most cool babes(the beautiful ones) get thru life selling n promoting themselves on the currency of their beauty-15% of them reach the top on merit and intelligency.how else would yu explain y a man after amassing wealth would hitch up a beautiful dunce 4 a wife who has no intellectual contribution to the building up ofthe husband's core activity except turn out to be an economic liability.whose only chore is shopping n shopping.
of these 85%,you see or read of almost everyday-divorce n want half of the man's wealth or leave their vows when things get very rough.they leave cos they no they are beautiful n will get another man who will bear their frivolity n vanity.
but they 4get that beauty like flowers do fade after 2 much exposure to d sun.


Ola Odumosu at 2:45pm January 27
i think beauty betrays ugly people less than pretty people. as a friend told me once, beauty comes from within and shines outside for people to see. i grew up with d notion that the amount of Benjamin's u have will determine how happy u r! still trying to find out. lol

Sheila BlackStar at 6:23pm January 27
Beauty is as beauty does.Depending on the kind of job,yes beauty does play role '[first impression counts ,its the first thing people see]However i donot believe it gets us through life ....Inner beauty does!!!
Beauty captures the attention personality captures the heart.Thank you for tagging me Max.


Taiwo Lawrence at 7:28pm January 27
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...So I behold beauty!...lol
Seriously though..Beauty is for me more internal than external, i know some people who "look" very beautiful but are so ugly!
And I use the term without limitations..ugly!
So a really beautiful person to me is one whose insides are cleansed and I guess that is what attracts me to people or people to me..I am beautiful inside!!!...lol


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 1:03am January 28
“Beauty is the currency of betrayal” – not sure of the content of the book, but I guess when a lady relies heavily on her physical appearance as a gateway to success, she might be disappointed to discover that there’s more to life than that.

Sheila…same sentiment! Beauty could open the 1st door since the world judge people first by appearance but that is where it ends. Beauty without intelligence (or education) without manners = zero!

Maxine..what’s the novel about?



Regina Askia Williams at 1:32am January 28
Hey Max

Beauty sure opens doors and makes could make the world go round IF YOU KNOW HOW TO USE IT ( thats the key - otherwise prepare for tears ). Girl, once a queen .......

Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 1:46am January 28
Regina..
U stated“if you know how to use it”..I wish you could expantiate on this please...



Regina Askia Williams at 1:58am January 28
Understand that you must have a clear idea of what you want and what you need to get what you want. ( A plan that wud wrk - whether u r beautiful or not). Whn u know ur onions, being beautiful becomes a game face. Folks wud be mostly looking and agreeing with you. Some folks dont think they need anything else than just look good. They babble, fidget and comes across as air heads, they become easy picking because others get to jerk them around. ( That is when beauty becomes the currency of betrayal). There is nothing you cannot get or do if you mean to do it - beautiful or not. Beauty does open doors, if u dont have it and u need it , buy it



Regina Askia Williams at 1:59am January 28
Hey Max can I post this on my blog- very interesting


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 2:39am January 28
Regina…interesting!

I guess partially, depending on what “goals or objectives” are; if you are referring to materialism, then it is understandable. Dare I mention that in this 21st century, it goes beyond looks. The world reckons more with BEAUTY and BRAIN. I have seen a lot of women who depended solely on their looks degraded and ended up being losers in life.

I work in a higher institution and I’m so impressed by the number of “exceptionally” beautiful girls from all over the continent aspiring in life rather than being tagged as “toys” to be used and dumped. You’ll also be amazed at the type of courses they do.

Omasan…we need to know the content of this interesting novel.



Max Buwa at 4:17am January 28
All very interesting views and insightful. Thanks...
@ Regina...permission to blog on..did u really have to ask ? Guess it's called mutual respect, and that is beautiful bout u right der.

@ Eunice..Its Eric jerome Dickey.'.pleasures'..The lead xrachter, Nia is exceptionally beautiful, intelligent( award winning author) and independent;her other side , shes rather erotic,sexually insatiable.It is about the struggle of her sensual self vs her professional self/christian background.
@ Sheila, personality captures the heart.. I like that.
@ Taiwo...I've had a few men see ur beauty and appreciate it, but whats with the need to prove dominance subtly hinted to a woman if she does have a personality???


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 4:27am January 28
I’ll order it on Amazon immediately…sounds interesting…


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 4:32am January 28
Editorial Reviews
From Publishers Weekly
Is obsession required to experience the ultimate in sexual fulfillment? Dickey searches for the answer to that question in his latest steamy romance (after Waking with Enemies) via Nia Simone Bijoux, a ghostwriter recently moved to Atlanta. A devout Anaïs Nin fan, Nia's in hot pursuit of the perfect lay. Enlivened by sometimes catchy narration (Self-pleasuring was popcorn.... My body was telling me it needed steak), Nia's adventures with identical sins, twins Mark and Karl, introduce her to the dubious delights of threesomes and more, leading eventually to a showdown with Mark's wife, Jewell Stewark, a TV anchorwoman. Marred somewhat by Nia's pretentious airs (her self-involvement can be crippling to the narrative), this erotic potboiler still delivers its message that saying yes to pleasure can also lead to self-enlightenment. (Apr.)
Copyright © Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved. --This text refers

Sheila BlackStar at 4:32am January 28
Book club at work!!!! Am ordering one as well...



Max Buwa at 5:22am January 28
Warning: Not for those of non-liberal dispositions or the sensually inhibited...The rest of u will be grinning from ear to ear for days.
..and lots of lessons..things we know but attempt to change... bout both sexes.


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 5:27am January 28
makes it more interesting!!!!!!

Taiwo Lawrence at 6:00am January 28
@ Eunice..Thanks for the enlightenment!!!
@ Max..No dominance in beauty at all..



Regina Askia Williams at 6:26am January 28
It is about the struggle of her sensual self vs her professional self/christian background.Warning: Not for those of non-liberal dispositions or the sensually inhibited...........???

I will not be reading this book....and I envy and have done so for a long time ....all the ladies who will be reading and smiling as they read this book. This struggle of sensual self vs prof...more like christian background is one I have tried to hang for ages but it will not go away. Anything that brings theses issues up I avoid.......that is why girls, at this time. ill take the pop corn, two servings...no thats a tease ....make that 4 .
Thanks Max, ill post this.....



Regina Askia Williams at 6:32am January 28
The Bible says women should not want too much "steak" ( in the context of the book) the bible says pop corn (self pleasuring is of the devil), okay it has said nothing about where to vent God given feelings of erotica. So I contend if my choices were wrong, I figure my popcorn gadgets would somehow malfunction. Your reading this means I have not been electrocuted yet......so pop corn all the way.



Regina Askia Williams at 6:37am January 28
@Peter Fuludu
There is great economic genius in the woman you dubb " beautiful dunce" who shops and shops, and who leaves when that business venture expires " the broke husband". They usually get half, keep the homes, own beautiful cars and move on, on their merry ways. If they are alright with their choices who r we to judge......


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 6:42am January 28
I've just posted an article from nytimes on my profile...it ends this way:
............................................................................
"Institutions do all the things that are supposed to be bad. They impede personal exploration. They enforce conformity.
But they often save us from our weaknesses and give meaning to life.
.................................................................................

It appears more like, religion can impede one from self exploration (i.e. enjoy having "hmmn") and at the same time we need to bear in mind that it is God that also gave r "hmnnn" apparently only for procreating.

I think this is heading to another direction . I'm a Christian sista, hence, out of the play...(lol)



Regina Askia Williams at 6:51am January 28
Only for procreating? Na real wa o!! It would have been of great help if when we were ready to procreate, take a pill and the procreating apparatus opens up and we take it from there. A life time of battling hormones and erotic feelings is such a burden, add that to the germ warfare of today where new drug resistant microbes are everywhere - Damn, whats a sister to do but pop corn.
@Eunice - Religion has given me an unshakable faith in hope. Because there is a God who loves me - everything woill be alright is my dogma....but everyother thing for me is a quest from which I will rest only when I have acquired a conviction .....
What do you mean you r out of the play ?- Does this mean that you are waitng for procreation? Thats deep

Max Buwa at 6:53am January 28
..and just like Nia...we create conflict between our faith and our fantasies...
Paul said it is better for a man to burn.....it suited him;not so much so thousands of catholic leaders who lashed out at young innocent boys in their care.
I been doin Good as my faith instructs for almost 2 years. I'm not married so no nookie....I'm in my prime,hormones going craaaazy and apparently there is a famine of Godly,single men ...I love my God's sense of humour...cos me I am not Paul o.

Taiwo Lawrence at 6:54am January 28
@ Eunice..Hmmmm is only pleasurable because it was made that way, have you ever seen other animals close their eyes when they are procreating???...lol



Regina Askia Williams at 6:58am January 28
ha ha ha ....Max is not Paul
@Taiwo. Yes O they close and open their eyes and get at each other like "murder"....thank God humans r different cos ill be packing a magnum whenever I had to get down.....


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 7:01am January 28
LMAO...
I don't blame african mothers for "chopping" or closing the "woreva" up!

Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 7:02am January 28
Buahhahhah @ Maxine!!! U R NOT PAUL...



Max Buwa at 7:05am January 28
@ Eunice ...Pleeeeeze sis blame dem. The most pleasurable part of my anatomy that God placed their for numerous purposes....chopped off. ??? How did mama conceive me. she was pleasured too...except her name is Mary !!!!
That mutilation thing...just ignorant!



Regina Askia Williams at 7:08am January 28
@Max...Okay, name the numerous purposes.

Max Buwa at 7:10am January 28
Shhhhuuuuu. I am not Paul . NO Hmmmm. I can't pleasure myself...The situation is kinda tight(excuse the pun)..
With each passing day I remind God that this thing should be earning me crowns or points...whateva it is one gets rewarded with in heaven...No be lie.


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 7:10am January 28
Buuahahhahaah…obviously mama knew u prolly’ll do “animashaun” (or “gifty”) with the “gift of life”, hence, the mutilation! Nay…mama didn’t enjoy it..she did to have u….
NOOOOooo to cheerful giving………….

On a serious note, I don’t support female genetal mutilation oooo

Taiwo Lawrence at 7:11am January 28
Paul was also married and divorced so his views are simply from his own experience..My sister I have a friend who abstained for 17yrs waiting for marriage and now too old to have any children... But here is the sad part of the story, she wanted children so badly..She shared with me that one day she heard from God that He did not tell her to abstain!!..True story..
To each... do your research about this I will not do issue please!!



Max Buwa at 7:12am January 28
@ Regina.....go pop some corn girl!!!! Ur own struggle come pass my own. u need prayers.. LMAO..



Regina Askia Williams at 7:14am January 28
@Max, two years of no nookie? Let me tell u something, you are going to have such a desperate look whenever u talk to a guy he will ask you " R you allright"? If you are caught in a breeze all the hairs on your body will stand on ends and your nose will clog up, nipples freeze and your jaws will slack- pple will be asking you "Are you okay"

Even Flavor Flave will start to look good......



Max Buwa at 7:15am January 28
@ Eunice...I have a thingy well well o... My mama no chop am off o...Or are we just talking in general here


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 7:19am January 28
Lol at Regina…”out of play for me”…do you know many river don pass under the bridge”? I don born 3 BIG PERSONS!!! (lol)…

May be in my next world…I’ll seal it until am ready to procreate.

I mean’t the write-up was moving to another direction considering how it started..now taking about pleasure..procreating…



Max Buwa at 7:20am January 28
Taiyeeeeee-wo...Of course the woman will hear start hearing things if 17 years of no Nooky. I heard things first 4 months...lets keep it real...but Pls enlighten me on where God said we can have sex unmarried. Marriage is honorable, the bed undefiled ...is what i know.



Regina Askia Williams at 7:22am January 28
@Max....you points are counted towards the fact that abstinence has kept u healthy.....
@The 17 yrs abstinence was getting ready to end when this secret was shared, the question is , did you help end it? In truth the bible says ....if you can ?? If you cant I guess you marry, If you cant find Prince Charming or he is gone AWOL, what then?



Max Buwa at 7:23am January 28
@ Eunice...it did not shift...the book is called pleasure...only that ol girl had no intention of procreate;was simply getting her Hmmm on.


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 7:27am January 28
Omasan...this our discussion I mean...e don dey shift from the initial question u been ask us. now we don divert to another angle...interesting though! i been say bicos i be God pikin...i dey run away from this discussion so dat una go teach me bad thingy...



Regina Askia Williams at 7:30am January 28
Max ...na wa for your quote, marriage bed undefiled?...Na so ...
@Eunice...I think the conversation is in line..as it relates to each of us. Why do you look so much like Ego Boyo ( Sorry if I blew a cover).
@Max, Keep the no Nookie up and you will be seeing things too



Regina Askia Williams at 7:33am January 28
@Eunice - I don dey suspect you . Na bad ting dem wan teach you ? How de ting take bad?Why u wan run, ...Abi dis talk dey make someting hungry you .


Eunice Oviawe-Jones at 7:33am January 28
Regina...trust me...i'm loving the discussion oooo dis one na adult education (lo).

Ego Boyo - that's the actress that used to be paired with Richard Mofe Damijo (forgotten her name now)...lol...we are not related but i'm glad that u think i look like such a woman.

u r a good actress as well...especially when paired with Liz Benson...i can't forget ur soap back then.



Regina Askia Williams at 7:40am January 28
Ehen, its 10:37 ...gotta go ...will miss you guys, @ Max thanks for a lifely morning , men its snowing, so cold, ..................some nookie wud be nice. Cant walk around with an inserted gadget, I would be too "happy" at work .......bye ladies



Regina Askia Williams at 7:41am January 28
@Eunice thanks and Bye